If she does she has to send it to her manager. If she does she'll still have to realize her wrongs.
I don't take crap like this from companies. I'm a makeup artist, I deal with companies all the time. Sure it's a family business, it's a family business that SHE it RUINING by not being polite and treating you like some freeloader. if you can't sample the products when you have no places in your area, then how does she expect you to buy from the company? And now everyone on this thread can see it. She's hurting the business.