Hi DG!!
Like I said, I myself would never have an abortion, but it's not my place to tell other people what to do. Maybe I didn't word it the right way in my last post, but maybe if a woman is raped or is the victim of incest, she may look upon that child as a constant reminder of what happened to her. She may even think that the child is a product of evil, & does not think that the child should be on this earth. By product of evil, I mean that she may think that the child has the rapists genes in them. And if she she gives birth to this child, maybe this child will be a "bad seed".
If she grew up being the victim of incest, then she may not realize that there ARE decent people out there who could give her child a good home and a good life. Because all she knows is bad.
Believe me, I love kids a lot. My boss told me that if they ever opened a day care in our place, that would be
my job. Kids ALWAYS come running to me no matter where we are. I'm a total animal/kid person, and I'd do anything for them. I am not FOR abortion, but I am okay with someone making their own choice about it. Except with the brutal way described here.
And no, DG, fear of having your child come looking for you later in life is absolutely NOT an excuse for an abortion. I totally agree with you there.
And one more thing, I know it's really hard to convey tone online, so I hope this is just a friendly discussion. We agree on some things, right?? And it's okay to disagree on other things without fighting. I'm new here & I just wanted to make sure.
I won't be back online until next Sunday, most likely, so I hope to see you then!!