Don't know if I mentioned it to you yet(though I have mentioned it on this site before), but Naturally Curly has an excellent hair forum. It's active, and lots of African American women post there who keep their hair in a natural state. It was a god send for me, because I dealt with frizzy, out of control hair for a very long time. Now I get compliments all the time on my curls.
You might find it helpful to you. They review products and salons.