Ya, mine is coarse, dry and wavy, so the oleo relax is wonderful for keeping it soft and healthy. The leave-in I use (7 seconds by Unite) is amazing and just as valuable to me to keep my hair soft. It is lighter than the oleo mask, which I need.
I know!! The elasto curl smells sooooo good! The oleo relax fragrance is the absolute ONLY thing I'm not in love with about it.
The whole point to my question, like I said, is that I would really like to get better at wearing my hair CURLY! It looks so great and fun for A DAY! Then I have to wash it, cause the curls get messy and frizzy. When I straighten it, I can go around three days without having to wash it. I just run a flat iron through the top layer and it's done. So, I am looking for something that makes my curly hair easier to manage from day to day, as well as makes the curls more defined.
I did find these things called Curlformers though! You put them in when your hair is damp and they take a little time to get in. But when my hair is dry, the curls are soooo nice! Defined, springy, shiny, beautiful!
So I guess I will just get used to doing it curly everyday again and it'll get better.
I remember that the more often I let my hair go curly (instead of straightening it), the curlier it got. So I'll wait and see how it turns out.
Thanks for your opinion though!!