You aren't the only one who doesn't care about being tan dixie wolf! I think for these people who tan all the time, they get used to seeing themselves darker and just aren't used to their natural color when they aren't. Just like girls who get their hair highlighted and highlighted, then bleached and bleached and STILL think it isn't blonde enough! My colorist told me she sees it all the time!
To be honest, I think it looks a little weird to see someone tan in the wintertime. When I went to Europe this summer, I was slightly tempted to get a bit of a tan, seeing every French and Italian person perfectly bronzed from the Mediterrainian sun! But then I was in a store talking to these two French girls. I thought both of them were older than me - one maybe a couple years older than me, the other mid-thirties. It turned out that the one was 18, and the other was only 23. I am TWENTY FIVE!! And it was the same with everyone I met down there, and it is all because of the constant tanning! Those people BAKE! Not to mention the fact that they all smoke like chimneys...
I'm half mediterrianian, and sure, i look great with a tan, but to me, it's not worth it. I want to stave off aging for as long as I possibly can! Pale skin is beautiful too - including pale olive skin! Maybe if I lived in California or Florida, I would be a bit more tempted. But living here in DC, everyone else is pale, so what do i care!?