Goin' braless; don't care.

[Momo]

yeah but after so much it's time to defend yourself.:sleepyhead:

 

[Jessica]

I didn't read that deep into it (contoversy).....I was more like yeah!!!! You can wear no bra unlike me whos "girls" are going south and I need one.

 

[EyeCandyDiva]

Do your thang girl...I have to wear a bra cause my 44d's need to be contained in public..LOL BUT at home, I NEVER wear a bra.

 

[dcole710]

I agree with JessyAnn74.

Momokins good for you. I think you should feel free to express yourself in whatever way you choose. Also, the beauty of this site is that it can be used as a sounding board. Everyone has their opinions and IMO:glasses: ; on this topic there is no right or wrong. Just a matter of personal preference.

Don't sweat it and just do you.

 

[Saje]

Interesting read! Do what suits you I guess. Always just remember as unique as we all are there is no true individual in a society and you will always be guaranteed to find people who believe or do the same things and encourage the same things that you believe in and it will be the same on the other side.

Anyway... I cant go braless. I need the support and I dont like it when guys stare at my nipples (they're very "perky" that I can only wear padded bras)

 

[NatalieRose]

high five!!! lol

i had to wear a bra 24/7 when i was breastfeeding and it was so miserable. now that i have my A's back, i hardly wear one unless i'm going out.

 

[vanilla_sky]

interesting discussion. IMO, feminism is not about non conforming, it is more about the choice, the possibility and option I should have as a woman, or as a human being to speak in boarder terms. It's ok to conform to certain things as long as you are aware of choice that you have. conforming does not have to mean obeying to controlling force. One can be a housewife and a feminist at the same time /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

 

[Saje]

I totally agree with you vanilla sky!

Feminism isnt really about the actions that a female does but the decision (and the road taken) to take that action is what is important. Its the fact that she has these choices that she can make for herself, whether she follows any trend or style started by someone else or herself, is what makes the feminist movement.

And as I said earlier in my post, no one can really non-conform, but rather instead of conforming to one ideology, they just CHOOSE to conform to another. Since nonconforming is usually defined as going against the norm, then wouldnt another question to that be what is the norm anyway? What is normal to one may not be normal to another, and one can guarantee that there would be enough people to say that what is not normal is infact normal(after sorting out how many people one needs to define normal). Thus, the only way one can truly non-conform is to do something that you are 100% sure you are alone in.

Lol hopefully that made sense to ya'll.

 

[AprilRayne]

I hope you don't think I was attacking you! I was only giving my opinion because you asked me too. I wasn't going to take it any further than to say I couldn't do it, but good for you for choosing to! /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

 

[Karen_B]

I have tiny breasts and don't really need to wear a bra. I do, however, because otherwise I have the silhouette of a man (almost) and I don't really feel comfortable with that.

And yes, I am a feminist too /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

 

[jdepp_84]

I've got the same question. I have A's and well I think I would be fine with B's or C's. My boobs are so small:sleepyhead: but at least my exbf thought they were cute. hehe.

 

[Kookie-for-COCO]

I gotta have the bra. These girls would be all over the place. LOL

 

[mac-whore]

lol it wasn't a personal attack, i was just stating my opinion on the subject in general.

 

[Momo]

i agree, sometimes i feel like i'm the only one out of my friends with hope/interest/knowledge of getting out of this small town, or even supporting myself. it's sort of tiring. i was referring to housewife as a submissive role, which i hope didn't offend because i know housewives can be strong women too (heck you have to be, if you have kids)

 

[tothemax]

your boobs will sag faster if you don't wear bras. Boobs sag because of 1) aging process/genetic makeup and 2) gravitational pull. YOu can't control the first reason but you can control the second, by wearing support. Trust me, not wearing any support for years, your boobs will definitely sag faster than if you would. It's just a common sense.

 

[Momo]

oh, i know, but i'm not worried about that. i'm okay with aging, it happens to people.

 

[LovinPigments]

im ok with aging too.... but gee whiz i dont want to look like i have an 80 yr old womans body when im 40. IMO

*I wear bras..to keep um perky* /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

 

[anjanasadil]

Right on! i was going to say something exactly along the lines of this!

FIRST OFF, I WANT TO SAY THAT I THINK THAT YOU ARE TAKING EVERYONES COMMENTS TOO SERIOUSLY. NO ONE HERE IS ATTACKING YOU OR ACCUSING YOU OF ANYTHING....

SECONDLY, YOU MENTIONED 'HOUSEWIVES' IN YOUR POST. NO OFFENSE, BUT WHATS WRONG IF A GIRL WANTS TO BE A HOUSEWIFE? THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT SHE IS SUBJECTING HERSELF TO A LOWER POSITION IN SOCIETY. I FIND NOTHING WRONG IN BEING A HOUSEWIFE, AND I'M SURE THAT MANY OTHERS WILL AGREE WITH ME ON THIS. :rockwoot:

EXACTLY! you took the words right out of my mind! excellent post!

 

[LovinPigments]

i completly agree. im a housewife...i stay at home with my soon to be 2 yr old son. i dont feel less than others who work or have high end paying jobs. being a housewife is actually pretty demanding...with a 2 yr old who constantly wants to play and go to the zoo, cleaning house everyday, making dinner for my son and husband EVERYDAY! there are no sick days when your a housewife/stay at hom mom. (did i get a little off subject...haha) well neways being a housewife is DEF. NOT A LOW POSITION!

 

[MindySue]

just gotta post again to say please dont feel attacked! i have felt the same way as you do on different subjects that are serious to me but you gotta remember that people wont agree with you even when you want em to! i think it's great you don't care if you sag to the ground, lol!

i wear bras because it feels uncomfortable without one, they do sag for me even though im only 17 when I don't wear one. Not a lot, but enough. Plus I don't like my nipples getting hard and showing through, im always self concious about that, it'd drive me crazy. Also, when they move around, it's so uncomfortable! I don't wear em to bed and thats enough for me.