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I just want to second this. I also got Cachtice yesterday and I was surprised how different it looks. You described it perfectly - a metallic red, not at all what I was expecting. I love it as well! It's my first NM order and I'm really pleased with it.
Today in the daylight I think it looks almost more like a pinkish burgandy on me, not as "red".  But it still has that warm metallic top finish.  Still absolutely gorgeous.  I have over 100 lip products (truth be told I have not counted for several months and have been on a buying binge, so probably over 150).  I doubt that I will ever finish any of the lippies I have just because I have so many.  But this one, I am ordering an extra of.  That is how much I like it!

 
Please tell me honestly, I can take it, I'm an adult...am I being a spoiled little brat for expecting a prompt response to an inquiry about an order? I ordered from StarCrushed at the start of August, understanding that her TAT at the time was 10 - 14 business days. I received a tracking email last week, but after 8 days it still hangs at "Pre-shipment infor sent to USPS." Now I'm not getting any replies to my inquiries about the package. I am not pleased. Even while the shop was closed Haus of Gloi responded to a question within an hour or two. Is it just that this kind of service has made me into a child with an over-inflated sense of entitlement, or that this is actually the standard to which companies must strive, or do I have a genuine and justifiable rant?

Needless to say, I will not be ordering from this shop again. I get it with some companies--Haus of Gloi recently put orders on hold, with an estimated re-opening point; Fyrinnae puts it right out there that one can expect a wait of up to 45 days. I can respect that: stick with what you say, and deliver when you say, and keep the customer focus and quality going, and I'm fine with a waiting period. But I do not appreciate being told that my stuff is on the way when it is apparently sitting on someone's desk or stuck between car seats or whatever for over a week; and when a question is asked, is it too much to expect the courtesy of a response?

By contrast, I received my Meow order yesterday. The receipt included a handwritten note of thanks, extra samples added, and everything adorably packaged in a leopard-print drawstring bag. Inquiries are swiftly dealt with, the shipping is fast, and I feel valued as a customer.

Rant over. Carry on.

For what it is worth, she is in violation of FTC rules on internet sales.

This is from the FTC's website on mail, phone and internet sales.

http://www.business.ftc.gov/documents/bus02-business-guide-mail-and-telephone-order-merchandise-rule

What You Must Do If You Learn You Cannot Ship on TimeWhen you learn that you cannot ship on time, you must decide whether you will ever be able to ship the order. If you decide that you cannot, you must promptly cancel the order and make a full refund.

If you decide you can ship the order later, you must seek the customer’s consent to the delay. You may use whatever means you wish to do this -- such as the telephone, fax, mail, or email -- as long as you notify the customer of the delay reasonably quickly. The customer must have sufficient advance notification to make a meaningful decision to consent to the delay or cancel the order.

Some businesses adopt internal deadlines that are earlier than those set by the Rule to ensure that their delay notices give all customers a meaningful opportunity to consent to the delay. If businesses fail to ship or give delay notifications by their internal deadlines, they automatically cancel the orders and make refunds.

In any event, no notification to the customer can take longer than the time you originally promised or, if no time was promised, 30 days. If you cannot ship the order or provide the notice within this time, you must cancel the order and make a prompt refund.

What a First Delay Option Notice Must SayIn seeking your customer’s consent to delay, the first delay notice you provide to the customer (the "delay option" notice) must include:

  • a definite revised shipment date or, if unknown, a statement that you are unable to provide a revised shipment date;
  • a statement that, if the customer chooses not to wait, the customer can cancel the order and obtain a full and prompt refund; and
  • some means for the customer to choose to cancel at your expense (e.g., by providing a postage prepaid reply card or toll-free telephone number).
  • the following information when you cannot provide a revised shipping date:the reason for the delay, and
  • a statement that, if the customer agrees to the indefinite delay, the customer may cancel the order any time until you ship the merchandise.

If your first delay option notice provides a definite revised shipping date of 30 days or less, you must inform customers that their non-response will be treated as a consent to the delay.

Thus, your delay option notice might look something like this:

We will be unable to ship the merchandise listed above until [date 30 days or less later than original promised time]. If you don’t want to wait, you may cancel your order and receive a prompt refund by calling our toll-free customer service number, (800) 555-1234. If we do not hear from you before we ship the merchandise to you, we will assume that you have agreed to this shipment delay.

(Many merchants add clarifying language such as "Remember, if you want the merchandise, don’t call.")

If your first delay option notice provides a definite revised shipping date of more than 30 days or states that you do not know when you will be able to ship, you must tell your customers that if they do not respond, the order will be cancelled automatically within the originally promised time plus 30 days.

For example, suppose you have a reasonable basis for being able to ship in 30 days and you have chosen to make no shipment representation in your advertising. Within the 30 day period after you receive the customer’s properly completed order you learn that you cannot ship in time and, although you believe you will be able to ship at some point, you don’t know when. Your delay option notice to the customer might look something like this:

Because [explanation of backorder problem], we are unable to ship the merchandise listed above. We don’t know when we will be able to ship it.

If you don’t want to wait, you may cancel your order and receive a prompt refund by calling our toll-free customer service number, (800) 555-1234. If we do not hear from you and we have not shipped by [date 30 days later than original promised shipment time -- in this example, 60 days after receipt of the properly completed order], your order will be cancelled automatically and your money will be refunded.

If you do not want your order automatically cancelled on [date 30 days later than original promised shipment time], you may request that we keep your order and fill it later. If you do request that we keep your order and fill it later, you still have the right to cancel the order at any time before we ship it to you. You may use our toll-free number, (800) 555-1234, either to request that we fill your order later or to cancel it.

Remember: You are required to explain the nature of the backorder problem only if you provide an indefinite revised shipment date. This explanation should be detailed enough to permit the customer to judge what the possible length of the delay might be.

You also have the option of seeking your customer’s affirmative agreement to the delay. In any event, you must indicate what will happen if the customer does not respond.

What Later Notices Must SayIf you cannot ship the merchandise by the definite revised shipment date included in your most recent delay option notice, before that date you must seek the consent of your customers to any further delay. You must do this by providing customers a "renewed" delay option notice. A renewed delay option notice is similar in many ways to the first delay option notice. One important difference: the customer’s silence may not be treated as a consent to delay.

A renewed delay option notice must include:

  • new definite revised shipment date or, if unknown, a statement that you are unable to provide any date;
  • a statement that, if the customer chooses not to wait, the customer can cancel the order immediately and obtain a full and prompt refund;
  • a statement that, unless you receive notice that the customer agrees to wait beyond the most recent definite revised shipment date and you have not shipped by then, the customer’s order automatically will be cancelled and a prompt refund will be provided; and
  • some means for the customer to inform you at your expense (e.g., by providing a postage prepaid reply card or toll-free telephone number) whether the customer agrees to the delay or is canceling the order.
  • the following information when you cannot provide a new definite revised shipping date:
  • the reason for the delay, and
  • a statement that, if the customer agrees to the indefinite delay, the customer may cancel the order any time until you ship.
If you have provided an appropriate and timely delay option notice and the customer agrees to an indefinite revised shipment date, no additional delay notices are required.

When You May Cancel an OrderInstead of seeking the customer’s consent to delay, you can always cancel the order and send a refund. In that case, you must notify the customer and send the refund within the time you would have sent any delay notice required by the Rule.

When You Must Cancel an OrderYou must cancel an order and provide a prompt refund when:

  • the customer exercises any option to cancel before you ship the merchandise;
  • the customer does not respond to your first notice of a definite revised shipment date of 30 days or less and you have not shipped the merchandise or received the customer’s consent to a further delay by the definite revised shipment date;
  • the customer does not respond to your notice of a definite revised shipment date of more than 30 days (or your notice that you are unable to provide a definite revised shipment date) and you have not shipped the merchandise within 30 days of the original shipment date;
  • the customer consents to a definite delay and you have not shipped or obtained the customer’s consent to any additional delay by the shipment time the customer consented to;
  • you have not shipped or provided the required delay or renewed option notices on time; or
  • you determine that you will never be able to ship the merchandise.
 
I have found a new Holy Grail item for me.  Based on the rec from @@Bflopolska I ordered a sample of Goddess Glow from ErzulieCosmetics.  I was a little worried it might not work for me since it is described as "pink".  I have very light skin that leans just slightly yellow, but I usually need a neutral foundation.  All over pinks can be troublesome for me because I have a lot of redness.  I have been putting this on after my primer (which I always mix with a little Hot Sand Illuminizer from NARS...it really makes my pores look smaller).  The to combat the redness factor I have been using Dr. Pickles Miraculous Beauty Dust in the green from My Pretty Zombie on top of it.  I then proceed with my usual foundation.  I have noticed a much healthier, smoother look to my face since I have been doing this.  I look much more "finished" yet natural.  I am about to order the full size.  She also had super fast shipping.  I ordered on a Sunday night and she shipped on Monday.

 
Just wanted to pop in and say hi!  I have been lurking on this thread for a bit  and love seeing everyones hauls. 

Already making a list of things to get once my budget allows it. I know I definitely must have the Nic Cage glosses.

 
I have found a new Holy Grail item for me.  Based on the rec from @@Bflopolska I ordered a sample of Goddess Glow from ErzulieCosmetics.  I was a little worried it might not work for me since it is described as "pink".  I have very light skin that leans just slightly yellow, but I usually need a neutral foundation.  All over pinks can be troublesome for me because I have a lot of redness.  I have been putting this on after my primer (which I always mix with a little Hot Sand Illuminizer from NARS...it really makes my pores look smaller).  The to combat the redness factor I have been using Dr. Pickles Miraculous Beauty Dust in the green from My Pretty Zombie on top of it.  I then proceed with my usual foundation.  I have noticed a much healthier, smoother look to my face since I have been doing this.  I look much more "finished" yet natural.  I am about to order the full size.  She also had super fast shipping.  I ordered on a Sunday night and she shipped on Monday.
I'm glad it worked! The pink in it is kind of deceptive, I think, because it really doesn't show up as pink shimmer. I find that it ends up making me look a little more even and a lot more wide awake. Sometimes I'll just use it alone, usually if I'm in a big hurry, and just wear a little mascara and lipstick and I look quite put-together.

 
@@Bflopolska I don't think you're being entitled about your order at all. I would email the company and say you're going to cancel the charge with your credit card company if she doesn't actually ship it. Pre-Shipment pretty much always signifies a label was printed, but hasn't been taken to the post office. I'll bet you get a response then.

 
Please tell me honestly, I can take it, I'm an adult...am I being a spoiled little brat for expecting a prompt response to an inquiry about an order? I ordered from StarCrushed at the start of August, understanding that her TAT at the time was 10 - 14 business days. I received a tracking email last week, but after 8 days it still hangs at "Pre-shipment infor sent to USPS." Now I'm not getting any replies to my inquiries about the package. I am not pleased. Even while the shop was closed Haus of Gloi responded to a question within an hour or two. Is it just that this kind of service has made me into a child with an over-inflated sense of entitlement, or that this is actually the standard to which companies must strive, or do I have a genuine and justifiable rant?

Needless to say, I will not be ordering from this shop again. I get it with some companies--Haus of Gloi recently put orders on hold, with an estimated re-opening point; Fyrinnae puts it right out there that one can expect a wait of up to 45 days. I can respect that: stick with what you say, and deliver when you say, and keep the customer focus and quality going, and I'm fine with a waiting period. But I do not appreciate being told that my stuff is on the way when it is apparently sitting on someone's desk or stuck between car seats or whatever for over a week; and when a question is asked, is it too much to expect the courtesy of a response?

By contrast, I received my Meow order yesterday. The receipt included a handwritten note of thanks, extra samples added, and everything adorably packaged in a leopard-print drawstring bag. Inquiries are swiftly dealt with, the shipping is fast, and I feel valued as a customer.

Rant over. Carry on.
*hugs* I agree with you though. Its infuriating when communication fails in times of less than stellar service, indie or not. I have a few companies now that I find I certainly gravitate towards if I want faster TAT and/or *extras*

I agree its hard not to have a sense of intitlement when you get an Indie order without samples or those cute extras since SO MANY of them do these things but far too often I find I get upset with Shipping/TAT issues over these extras.

Example, when I ordered from Victorian Disco in July I had been reading about her moving troubles and her estimated TAT was about 2 months. It was a hard call, as I can be super impatient. But I ordered a large amount of items anyways and told myself to "forget about it and be surprised" when it came. Her updates to social media have eased my mind countless times and I have never truly felt upset about waiting so long becasue she has been rather transparent about the delays. LOTS of people are upset waiting so long though and I also understand them, but I was already mentally prepped for a long TAT, so I am fine with it. However, when I suggest Indies to other friends I caution them to Victorian Disco because of this though. I will always let friends know if its a fast TAT or a longer one and if the have freebie samples or not...Perspective is a beautiful thing and helps our favorite companies grow for sure!

When other companies leave you hanging, especially past the stated TAT then don't respond to Emails...yeah that's a WHOLE other story. I don't care if they are the best most well loved company in the world, they need to get their act together and at least let their customers know whats up. That is certainly worth ranting and being irritated about!

~In other news, My Notoriously Morbid Blood Countess collection is estimated to get here Friday (I'd love to see other people's swatches etc if anyone is willing! I am so excited!! ) . My Haus of Gloi should be here within 48 hours I think, and my Aromaleigh prize shipped so that will be a matter of days too! On FB Linda said that the other half of the I+TA subs are shipping Wed and I think I'm in that group. Lots of pretties!

 
@@Bflopolska If you paid with Paypal and you're still within the time range, you can file a Paypal dispute. And yeah, unfortunately, a lot of people have had issues with Star Crushed Minerals.

@@Lolo22 Fyrinnae is one of those brands that sometimes randomly gets a huge influx of orders (or large orders) at once - which is why they over-exaggerate their TAT. It is also a brand that gets recognition (Temptalia, for example, talks about Fyrinnae) and they actually have a large order volume (Fyrinnae operates with multiple staff). Fyrinnae also enters some unique niches - which the owner has briefly referenced on IMAM.

Another note - there have been stories of Etsy store-owners offering discounts or free stuff to people who leave unfavorable reviews (in exchange for a favorable review or removal of the review). Unfortunately, that makes it harder to distinguish reliable brands :( /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

 
Oh, let me know how Bonfire smells! I think... I may have... argh. *double checked* Okay, I did NOT order that, but I was tempted, so if it smells amazing, you will totally enable me to order it.

For the record - I've also ordered a mini Body Whip in Wanderlust and the Hair Mist in Nevermore (as well as a full size of the Deadwood perfume oil) so I will definitely weigh in on those products when I get them!
Holy mother of all that is good, what is a Hair Mist? I must try this thing.

 
Holy mother of all that is good, what is a Hair Mist? I must try this thing.
This is the description on their website:

"This nutrient-rich detangler and styling primer leaves hair shiny, soft, and bouncy. Baobab Seed Protein and Vitamin B5 form a protective layer to smooth rough edges, seal in moisture, reduce frizz and static electricity, and protect from heat styling stress. Nourishing herbal extracts moisturize and condition hair without weighing it down. Perfect on all hair types to improve manageability while making hair stronger and healthier with every use.

Spray on damp or dry hair and comb through."

I almost bought some myself, so if it gets good reviews I'll be purchasing it. ;) /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

 
This is the description on their website:

"This nutrient-rich detangler and styling primer leaves hair shiny, soft, and bouncy. Baobab Seed Protein and Vitamin B5 form a protective layer to smooth rough edges, seal in moisture, reduce frizz and static electricity, and protect from heat styling stress. Nourishing herbal extracts moisturize and condition hair without weighing it down. Perfect on all hair types to improve manageability while making hair stronger and healthier with every use.

Spray on damp or dry hair and comb through."

I almost bought some myself, so if it gets good reviews I'll be purchasing it. ;) /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />
Ooh I'd love to know how that goes. I love spraying things in my hair :p /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

 
Please tell me honestly, I can take it, I'm an adult...am I being a spoiled little brat for expecting a prompt response to an inquiry about an order? I ordered from StarCrushed at the start of August, understanding that her TAT at the time was 10 - 14 business days. I received a tracking email last week, but after 8 days it still hangs at "Pre-shipment infor sent to USPS." Now I'm not getting any replies to my inquiries about the package. I am not pleased. Even while the shop was closed Haus of Gloi responded to a question within an hour or two. Is it just that this kind of service has made me into a child with an over-inflated sense of entitlement, or that this is actually the standard to which companies must strive, or do I have a genuine and justifiable rant?

Needless to say, I will not be ordering from this shop again. I get it with some companies--Haus of Gloi recently put orders on hold, with an estimated re-opening point; Fyrinnae puts it right out there that one can expect a wait of up to 45 days. I can respect that: stick with what you say, and deliver when you say, and keep the customer focus and quality going, and I'm fine with a waiting period. But I do not appreciate being told that my stuff is on the way when it is apparently sitting on someone's desk or stuck between car seats or whatever for over a week; and when a question is asked, is it too much to expect the courtesy of a response?

By contrast, I received my Meow order yesterday. The receipt included a handwritten note of thanks, extra samples added, and everything adorably packaged in a leopard-print drawstring bag. Inquiries are swiftly dealt with, the shipping is fast, and I feel valued as a customer.

Rant over. Carry on.
This is 2014.  Short of getting hit by a bus or kidnapped, there is no excuse for not answering emails in a timely fashion.  I've been in Ethiopia and Kyrgyzstan and still managed to answer personal emails, so it's absurd for a business owner to ignore you.

In other news, it's been a few days and I am completely in love with everything I got from My Pretty Zombie.  Brisket is my new favorite shadow color, and my first favorite that isn't a green or purple!

I also really need to stop making orders for the time being.  I made a couple more with the excuse of getting stuff for my mother's birthday, but I just counted and I have seven orders pending from various indies.  I think that makes me well stocked in every possible product category, even awesome purple blush!

 
  I think that makes me well stocked in every possible product category, even awesome purple blush!
Purple blush is awesome! I *Might* be wearing some right this very moment myself >.>

...I have nothing but nice things to say about My Pretty Zombie blushes (and eyeshadows too), I LOVE them!

<3

 
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Purple blush is awesome! I *Might* be wearing some right this very moment myself >.>

...I have nothing but nice things to say about My Pretty Zombie blushes (and eyeshadows too), I LOVE them!

<3
I luuuuurve purple blush. I think I have 4? They are just so fun! 

 
This might be slightly off topic, so I will put behind spoiler.  I am (in my own mind, linking it to this thread via the fact it concerns Etsy and Paypal which are 2 things indies use)  Mods if I took the link too far, please excuse this post

Ok I am like the last person and the face of the planet to not have a Pay Pal account. I purchased something from a seller on Etsy and like many Etsy sellers it had paypal as an option. Well since I do not have pay pal I have learned I can put in my CC and it will get charged and I do not have to use paypal. I got the notice via email (I think via etsy messenger) that my package had shipped and to check paypal for the tracking number.

But, um I do not have paypal? Is there any way to extract the tracking number?

I did end up having to join the 21st century and get paypal when I did the NM VC. So I tried to track the Etsy order via paypal that way and it either can't be done, or I am too technologically dense to figure it out.
Since all of you are indie/etsy/paypal pros I am hoping someone can steer me in the right direction.  TIA!

 
My aromaleigh order shipped! I ordered it yesterday. That is one fast TAT! Uber excited! I need to go to Michael's and get another container to put them in. I should've known 2 wasn't enough.

 
For those who enjoy indie perfume, I must give a shout-out to Theme Fragrance, which has its own website and also does Etsy. Their service is stellar, their shipping lightning quick, their communication and follow-through top-notch, and did I mention their products are muy excellente? Not too long ago I received my order and it contained the wrong color lip tint. The day I sent my message about it I was told to keep the wrong one (which turned out to be pretty nice!) and the right one would go out directly. Not only did I receive it today, but it came with a sample of another lip tint and a mini vanilla lip balm. And this was just Theme correcting a messed-up order!

I've been wearing both their sprays and oils for years and I love them. Those of you who like BPAL's Snake Oil may enjoy Unfolding Drama or Mixed Metaphor; Haus of Gloi Satyr fans will like Jour de Chance; and for you who like light, fresh and zingy, check out Sunlime or Seashell. They are affordable, wear like iron and the TAT is just about the best I've seen. The lip tints and balms are also wonderful and very inexpensive.

 
Why?! Why did I think it was a good idea to go to Black Rose Minerals for the first time tonight. Not only are they having a 40% off sale but they also have a Tolkien/Lord of the Rings inspired collection >.< My budget is already blown so I can't do any damage *for serious this time* but still, the art is super cute too! I wonder how much Tolkien makeup an elfy goth girl needs?
...on second thought, don't answer that...This thread is an enablers dream world. haha. <3

 
So, it's bad when you're currently tracking 7 different packages and one makes it to your local post office (yay!), but you can't remember what the item is... I guess I'll just be surprised tomorrow. :p /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

In other news I've tried three scents/products from Alchemic Muse, and I'm still very impressed with this company. I'll put my descriptions in a spoiler because I can get wordy. :D /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />

Bonfire - Mini Cream Soap - Fall Air, Mulled Cider, Woodsmoke

::: First off, a little bit goes a long way, so even with the mini I think it'll last for a while. This product worked wonderfully as a shaving cream! As far as the scent goes (also including the perfume oil) on me I immediately smelled of the woodsmoke with a faint smell of the mulled cider and fall air, after about 30 minutes or so I still had the faint woodsmoke smell with sweet notes from the mulled cider. My husband tried this scent as well, and immediately on him we smelled the spices of the mulled cider and a sweetness from the apples/cider. After about 30 minutes it was still just a faint smell of the spices and cider with a bit of the fall air...we never picked up on the woodsmoke with him. We both love the smell very much though, and I do think it is a universal scent.

Pumpkin Butter - Mini Foaming Body Scrub - Pumpkin Puree, Apple Butter, Golden Amber

::: This is another item that a little bit goes a long way. After using this product my skin does feel smoother, and it did foam up nicely in the shower. This scent combines all three very well, there wasn't really an overpowering scent out of this trio. It blended wonderfully and I could pick out all three scents perfectly.

Last...

Vanilla Oak - Perfume Oil - Vanilla Tobacco, Aged Oak, Precious Resins

::: Immediately once applied I could definitely smell the oak and vanilla with a hint of tobacco. After about 30 minutes it toned down, and the sweetness of the vanilla really came out (in a good way). I applied this 6 hours ago, and I can still smell it, so the staying power is there. This is a scent that I also believe could be universal depending on the body chemistry.

That's all for now! :) /emoticons/[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" />
 

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