Cheating......on my hairdresser

[Saja]

I went today and got my haircut. I went to someone who is NOT my hairdresser. Its not that I dont like her, its just that she works in a barbershop now, so it doesnt have the same kick to it that going to a salon does. Plus today was her day off. I feel like I cheated (shes also a friend who I go for cofee with every few weeks). Has this happened to you, or am I just nuts.

 

[WhitneyF]

Sometimes you just need a little variety. I'm sure she'd understand. Plus, I can totally see why you'd rather go to a salon atmosphere than a barbershop one.....much more fun and girly that way. Were you pleased with your overall cut and what not?

 

[Saja]

Yeah it looks good. She used some kinda color preserer that smells sosoo good...but i dont remember thename

 

[jdepp_84]

Yes I I like variety and she dosen't mind. I keep coming back with her for color, she is an awesome colorist but sucks at cutting. I got tired of getting bad hair cuts and finally just told her to stop and to bring her assistent. I thought she was going to get mad but she actually gave me a discount.,

 

[dlwt2003]

Years ago I always went to the same hairdresser a friend and hated my hair> Always she would give me old lady hair. I quit going to her and ended up losing our friendship but hey its my hair and if her doing my hair was the only reason for our friendship then I got out in time

 

[LVA]

eh .. i wouldn't worri about it ,.. after all .. it is your hair and your money

 

[dentaldee]

yeah ......i know what u mean.........I felt like I was cheating on my hairdresser too.......she moved to a new shop that was way to expensive for me...........I saw her one time after that and luckily I had my hair up so she couldn't tell......she said "oh, your hair must be getting long" (i didn't get it cut every 6 wks)........anyway.....I have avoided her in public a couple times since and one day she turned her back to me.......i'm sure she saw me........it's been 2 years now since I went to her

 

[Aquilah]

Nothing wrong with that at all! A girls gotta do what a girls gotta do! Should it come up, just say it HAD to be done that day and you knew she wasn't working LOL!

 

[xXMelissaXx]

I can't ever cheat on my hairdresser. Unless I find a better one....lol

 

[NYAngel98]

Just be honest... and if it's because of salon prices, location, or hours... then you really don't have to worry much about hurting her feelings. I know a lot of people take it as an insult, but they really shouldn't... and in your case, I dont think she would mind.

 

[Princess6828]

Well thankfully I love my hairdresser, but if she ever moved to a barbershop I'm not sure how I would feel about that - except I know she never would lol

 

[han]

i had a hairdresser that i love and wanted her to cut my hair a certain way and she said no your not gonna like it and so i cheated and i totally regret it i cried and it took two years to fix the mess but she was very understanding but to answer your question i feel guilty if i cheat and that bad hair cut cured me of straying

 

[bluebird26]

I sometimes do too

but I can't help it, my hairdresser is always busy, so I have to make an appointment like one or two months in advance

 

[4getmeNot]

Well I've never "cheated" on a stylist but I think it's perfectly fine if you do so, even if she is a personal friend. Like Kim said, it is your hair and money..do what you want! I'm actually having a time finding a good worthy stylist so cheating wouldn't be the problem for me..lol.