What do you find most attractive in a Man/Women

[Nox]

Originally Posted by StereoXGirl /img/forum/go_quote.gif One thing that will kill all attraction immediately, however, is when a guy is cocky. It makes me want to drop a guy like a hot potatoe.

YES! A man who is confident in his own right need not be cocky.
Before I was married, I had an idea of what I wanted. Now that I have my husband, there are certain physical traits that I disliked before, but now I love them just because he has them.

Like a hairy body. I thought I would hate it, but nope, it's how my man came and I love it. I also preferred DARK, but the vanilla package hubby came in suits him just fine. I DID love his baby blue eyes right away though, and I love that he has somewhat dark hair. Rawr! He's brainy, family-oriented, contributes to society (votes, good neighbor, Eagle Scout), and is very good to his wife!

 

[xxstephxx]

Physically: dark hair & light skin.

And more importantly; intelligence, genuinity, sarcasm, and an awesome sense of humor.

 

[Lia]

Honestly? I don't have something i feel ooh attracted to - i used to like pale guys with dark hair, but my bf is nothing similar to what i usually thought it was beautiful (only the fact he's tall and well built

). But then i now think he's very beautiful (see my profile pic

)

I like fun people and that aren't shy - i'm rather closed , so it would be odd to be with a even more shy person; I like to be well treated as well.

 

[KristinB]

Eyes and hair. I am a big fan of light eyes with thick dark lashes. Intelligence also seals the deal.

 

[CellyCell]

I now know personality means everything and someone you might not find physically attractive at first becomes so damn handsome later on.

Catches My Eye:

Smile (no yellow teeth or ciggy breath)

Eyes (I love it when guys smile and their eyes go ****** or you see warmth in there, long lashes make them so pretty too. Colors don't matter.)

Clean looking/Hygiene (little to no acne, clean hair cut, not smelly)

Captures my heart:

Humor! Our humor must match completely, I get annoyed when they don't get my jokes or takes things too seriously or are slow as hell ugh.

Talkative - like, we can talk about something completely random and go off on a conversation about it. I dont like dull people because then I become dull around them.

Openminded and sure of themselves.

Smarter than me because I know I ain't the brightest and I love being taught and learning new things from folks...

I'm describing one person here who fits this - ugh.

 

[PaperFlowers]

I cannot stand guys who whine. I don't do it often, and I can't tolerate it either-- my last few exes were incredibly whiny and childish. "People are so meannnnnnnnnnnn to me" "The world is out to get meeeeeeeeeeee" "I can't get a jobbbbbbbbbbb".

Ugh!

I love someone who is on his feet, is sweet and kind, and is there for me when I need him and vice versa. Someone who cares about his family and has a fantastic sense of humor. Someone who shows me how much he loves me and cares for me on a daily basis and lets me do the same. Good arm muscles and the most gorgeous eyes I've ever seen are a plus....

....wait, now I"m just describing my man. Oh well! He's all I ever wanted anyway.

 

[han]

Originally Posted by nosepickle /img/forum/go_quote.gif I like my guys with pale skin, dark hair, and a bit of pudge around the middle.

I actually don't really like guys with confidence. I like them kinda clingy, without any other friends. (maybe because I don't have any friends? haha)

Oh, and blue eyes. Good hygiene is a MUST... and good manners.

lol thats cute, you just describe my man to the tee, pale, pudge around the middle and light blue eyes. he use to be clingy too with no friends.