The older I get , the more my tastes change. My first husband was a God. Tall, dark and handsome, macho manly man........and meaner than hell. My second husband was still handsome to me but sweeter and more emotional than my first......then he became very demanding for my time and was very needy..........................Now, a man with confidence who isn't afraid to be a man but can show me his softer side. A sense of humor is a must. If I can't laugh with you, forget it. I have to have a man that knows his way around a bedroom. Listen I'm 42. I don't have the patience to show you where it is, ya know. Right now the man I am with is far from perfect but he gives me what I need.....for now, anyway.