If there's a perfume you already wear that you both love, wear that. I'm not a big believer in getting a new perfume for the wedding day. Definitely wear something that you both love, not just something he likes. I also don't think there's a "bridal" scent, specifically...you should smell like yourself, just like you should look like yourself.
Guys get really weird about wedding stuff and have really strange conceptions of "wedding." My fiance said he didn't care about flowers and then got all pouty when he found out there wouldn't be that many, plus he was *shocked* that there wasn't going to be white everywhere. I think guys generally get one image/thought/idea about what a wedding *is* and they can't go beyond that, even if it doesn't really fit them.
My mom recommends 24 Faubourg by Hermes or 24 Faubourg Eau Delicat, also by Hermes. They should both be carried in Sephora and maybe even Nordstrom. Also, check out Jo Malone fragrances -- I really like the combination of Nutmeg & Ginger first (one spray on each arm) topped with Nectarine Blossom & Honey (two sprays on each arm).
