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girl_geek /img/forum/go_quote.gif Well, small and perky may not always be perfect -- yesterday I just bought the first bra in 5 or 6 years that fit me perfectly, and it is a size 36AA! Yeah, a super-hard size to find -- I could only find two brands in the whole mall that made that size at all, and only one of those brands made a nice underwire style. (The other brand only made soft-cup wire-free bras -- those do nothing for me, I might as well not even wear a bra!) Before I bought that bra, I tried on 20 (yes I counted) 36A's and they were all too big! Very frustrating! So I would love it if my ****s were just a little bigger, just so I could buy regular 36A's and have more than one bra in the whole mall that fits!
But I still don't think I could ever bring myself to get implants. I still think it's just giving into society's message that you have to have big ****s to be beautiful. I think that if more people in our society would embrace ****s of
all sizes, there would be a lot fewer people getting **** jobs! And while I haven't had kids yet so I don't really know how I will react, I don't think I'd even want to get implants after childbirth. Again, it just seems like our society can't embrace a post-childbirth body as beautiful, so many people think you have to have perky, perfect ****s to really be beautiful! Why can't sagging post-childbirth ****s be beautiful? After all, it's a sign that you have brought a new life into the world -- most people agree that being a mother is one of the best "jobs" there is!
It seems like we are getting better at realizing that you don't have to be super skinny to be beautiful, so if we are accepting waistlines of more varied sizes as beautiful, why can't we accept more sizes and shapes of ****s as beautiful too? I even took out the removable padding from the bra I bought yesterday because I didn't like seeing my ****s looking bigger when I knew it was fake!
Plus, I am way too frugal, I cringed when I bought a $45 bra yesterday, there's no way I'd ever spend thousands of dollars on a **** job!
However, like I said, those are just my thoughts. If you truly want to get implants just for yourself -- not for what other people think of you, not for what your significant other wants, not as a way to attract a date, etc. -- then I guess there's nothing wrong with it. It is your body and your money, after all, so if it will make you truly happy, go for it!
I just know I would never do it myself, and just wanted to share my side of the issue!
i can respect and see how you feel the way you do since you have not had kids and your ****s are small but perky and one day when your body changes after child birth maybe then you can understand how i see things diffrently and its has nothing to do with thinking bigger ****s are more beautiful