And if you look at the pictures and films from the "I Love Lucy" days, all the women had thick thighs and cellulite- in fact having hips that flared and being soft was considered feminine- now its considered fat.
*warning, I'm ranting on a tangential issue- the beauty ideal*
Cellulite didnt used to be a big issue until the "ideal" womans body changed from one that was womanly and curvy to a one without the curves that define femininity- case in point, Marilyn Monroe, voted sexiest woman of all time, who was in fact a size 12/13, had a tummy and more than likely her share of cellulite. And now we kill ourselves to "lose just 10 more pounds"- for what? To starve forever afterwards in order to keep it off and feel like we've accomplished something real? Even the Coke bottle was shaped to resemble the womans curves that no one has anymore, unless theyre "chubby". I'm a thin woman, but I wasnt always. I yearn for the Marilyn days, the freedom of allowing myself to have a steak with a potato and not worry about my hips growing back. And remember Jessica Rabbit? Yes, she was a cartoon, but I'll tell ya what, you didnt hear anyone complaining that she wasnt sexy because she had big hips and thighs and all those curves- and I'll bet she would have had cellulite too!
To make a long story short, I meant to comment on my opinion of cellulite and stretchmarks- unless I decide one day to prance around all day long in public in a thong bikini, I refuse to worry about cellulite or stretchmarks. I refuse to become a slave to conformity. I will however, support anyones decision to buy creams, gels, sprays, magic pills and potions if it helps them feel better about themselves. But I will not abide the ads and promotions and opinions that make women feel badly about themselves for looking like a woman.
I wholeheartedly agree with Reija's statement- stretchmarks are part of being a woman. They are my badge of motherhood- when I look at them I think of what I went through to earn them and what I got in return. I dont look at them and wish I didnt have them- why should I make myself feel badly because someone else doesnt find them attractive? I earn my living by helping other women feel good about themselves- and it doesnt only mean with makeup. Having a percieved imperfection doesnt make anyone less attractive or less valuable. I know my worth.
Rant over