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Dang I took a nap and came back to read a bunch of posts and now that I'm done I just feel really irritated, which is a first for me here on MUT.
I get VERY insulted when people say, "don't tell me you can't afford ___. If you're paying for a subscription box you can afford it."
I budget my money down to the very last dime. I gave up quite a few things in order to try out Pop Sugar, and I did so because being poor sucks. And it sucks when people tell you that you're not allowed to have anything nice or treat yourself to anything nice because your poor. I received a bit of money as a gift from my mother who insisted I spend it on something fun and not on bills. I have a strict budget that allows a couple of the smaller subscriptions, and the other subscriptions I get (like memebox) are complimentary from the company for reviewing purposes. I have always been very jealous of the Pop Sugar boxes as they were always filled with fun and pretty things that I could never afford on my own, so I decided to sign up.
Pop Sugar has since sent me chocolate and popcorn galore. Wrapping paper, etc. January was a fine box but just not up my alley. I never complained about it or said the company was terrible, just that it wasn't for me. This box also falls into that category. It's definitely not Pop Sugar's fault that everything isn't tailored to me, but it's just strange that almost every box before December (when I signed up) was something I would have loved.
I am REALLY getting sick and tired of the "Stop whining" and "I'll whine when I want" debates on these threads. It always seems to happen on the PSMH threads the most. People come here to MUT to express their opinions with like-minded people, and heck, even non-like-minded people. But I would REALLY appreciate it if people didn't tell me what I can afford or what I can't. I would also really love to be able to express my like or dislike for something without the happy police getting angry about it. Not everyone is going to be sunshine and rainbows about every box. When I spend $40 on something, I understand it's a surprise, but when it's NOT A GOOD SURPRISE FOR ME, I'm allowed to be bummed out, even if it's a great surprise for you.
I don't love the negative nancy attitudes all the time either, but I understand people have a right to be bummed out, even if they signed up for a surprise box. We all want a good surprise, and we keep subcribing hoping the surprise will eventually be a good one.
This is going to be my last month with Pop Sugar because it's no longer in my budget and I haven't been happy with most of my boxes, and honestly these threads always make me feel stressed and uncomfortable with expressing my opinion for fear of being told to shut up and like it because I bought a surprise box and that's what I got.
See y'all in the other threads. Sorry to stir up anything, but I feel like I had to say something.
Here's my point of view. I can affording certain things and something are out of my budget. The money I spend on beauty stuff comes primarily from my what I earn via blogging and here on MUT so I'm careful with what I buy. I consider money I earn via blogging/my MUT position not to be out of pocket since it doesn't impact my "family" money (if that makes sense). Sometimes I do go over budget and buy things out of "my own pocket" (like my order with Frends Beauty today was out of my own pocket).
Anyhow, I totally get your budget. Beauty box subscriptions - regardless if it's $10 a month or $50 a month - allows a person to try things they normally either wouldn't buy, may not know about or be able to afford. Just because you're able to budget $40 for a Popsugar box doesn't mean you're able to (or want to) go out and spend that $40 on a single stand alone item. Been there, done that as there are something I LOVE from a beauty box but won't necessarily spend the $20, $30, $40 or $50 on that one item. I'm cheap, I've said it so many times myself, that unless I can get it for free, near free or at a discount I may not necessarily purchase it. Looking at the things I really love there are very few items I'm willing to shell out the $ to repurchase. Even my favorite Dermalogica exfoliant that I like so much I won't purchase because it's $52.
To me you have the right to complain if you don't like something. Why shouldn't you? We're all different with different tastes, different likes so not everyone is going to like the same thing. Unlike Facebook, I feel that MakeupTalk is a safe place for people to TALK about their boxes - the good, the bad and the "WTF were they thinking!?" when it comes to our subscription boxes. If people can't respect each other's different opinions here on MUT then MUT is not the place for them. I value someone's opinion if it's different from mine because it gives me an idea if I'm going to like something or not like something or even learn a different way to use something. Telling someone else that they don't have the right to have an opinion upsets me because that's not what MUT is about. I hope no one is telling you to not have an opinion because if anyone is I'm going to be one unhappy person.