Your daughter looks surprised but beautiful.
It'll just take a little time, unfortunately. Until then, try doing your makeup so you emphasise either your lips or your cheeks, and do a more neutral eye (not nothing, just more neutral).
Until then you can always say that you're discovering tribal love-rituals. I heard that there's a tribe somewhere (PNG?), where the husband nibbles the wife's eyelashes off (true!). A sign of affection, apparently. I don't believe they have much of a mascara industry there.