My hair is the same way, but since I jumped on Janelle's HealthySexyHair bandwagon, it's doing a lot better already! I use Marc Anthony's Curl Booster spray and defining lotion, and it keeps the frizz at bay pretty well! I don't want volume in my hair personally since it already has it naturally, but this does a good job too of it not looking like a bird's nest even once it's dried... Me love HSH now *lol*