I had no trouble getting the bracelet on. Just push, you ain't gonna break it, it's a wire! I do have smallish hands, but my ring size is 6, so not REALLY small, though. (Wedding band is a 5)
And it WILL unclasp, but you will most likely have to have help getting it back on. (I didn't but I am a big ol' bracelet ho, so I have had plenty of practice )
Edited to add I was going to give the bracelet to my niece, because I thought it would not be my taste, but I adore it!
Now I have to decide whether to give her the necklace ( which is definitely more suitable for a smooth, wrinkle-and-skin tag free 20-30 year old neck than the 51 year old model I'm sporting these days) or convert it to another bracelet. Because it would stack beeyoootifuly with the bracelet we got. (As well as the shotgun shell end cap bangle I have)
Outstanding box. LOVE!