For gentle, super-effective cleansing, I LOVE Cleansing Oils. DHC, Dermalogica (Its called Precleanse, but I stopped using the second cleanser ages ago, because this is so amazing by itself), and Shu Uemura (Which I haven't tried yet, but its next on my list) make amazing cleansing oils. You massage them on dry, then add water - they emulsify (turn into a light, milky emulsion) and rinse off cleanly. Not only do they cleanse effectively, but your skin isn't left dry and tight, but softer and smoother for it. I find that with one of these, I generally don't need makeup remover.