Dating an older guy

[boxercurl]

My fiance is 10 years older than me and has 3 kids. The only thing that has been hard on me is that his oldest daughter is half my age, she is 14yo. That was a little intimidating when I first met her but when I realized age doesn't matter it became a non issue.

 

[Lamour]

Personally I think 20 is a *bit* old for a 17 year old, but not too old... I say go for it, at least for a while, to see how it works out!

I may be biased though because there's some really awkward age differences around where I live... hell, I know a guy who's 18 and dates an 14 year old! And he's not even unattractive! (lol).

I think when you're above 17-18 then the age differences can be a bit higher than when you're younger... and then when you're 20 it's okay to have large age differences, but I'd still find 10-20 years a bit inappropiate. Over 30 I'd say age doesn't matter anymore (both parts beeing over 30, that is... hehe)