I love being blonde. It's natural, although I streak it to make it stand out a little more. In the summer it gets lighter, but not too much. I'm very pale, and I burn more than I tan, so I try to use as high a SPF as I can. For guys.. although it doesn't really matter to me what their haircolor is, if I had to choose, it would probably be brunette. Or blonde. I can't really decide, but I'm not really fond of red on men for some odd reason.