I'm surprised this is still open for comments.
I wonder what happened with you two.
I think this could be very difficult for you, even if he's completely trustworthy, and never does anything wrong.
I started off with not giving that part of MT a single thought when I met my boyfriend.
And now, I don't know if I can stay with him, because while 90% is probably totally uninteresting, it's the few women he does bond with that drive me insane.
I regret being in the relationship for this reason.
He works at his private home office, and no other people are around. It makes me feel very uncomfortable and unsafe.
But... BUT! I've been cheated or betrayed in all my prior relationships in some ways. Also, full disclosure: if I were doing that job, I could be tempted. Of course the control of my decisions is in my mind and body, and that ends any chance to cheat. But why put myself at any risk to?
I'm not proud of myself for any part of this. But this is the truth. And if I were starting over, I probably would have chosen not to explore a relationship with a massage therapist, who by the way did flirt with women in front of me at dances, believing it's a normal part of dancing.
If he were very conservative in behavior, that would help me.
My boyfriend is retiring soon. That's the only reason I'm able to handle it.
And it really is all about my issues with trust and human, especially male nature.
But it's extremely unhealthy for me. I'm unable to cope.
I hope you did better than that, and that you two are happily coupled to this day.