Hi
I understand what you are going through. There is a simple remedy to ease up and get rid off blackheads.
Wash your face with gentle face wash. take 1 T-spoon of olive oil and 1/2 T spoon of honey. mix and apply on your face and massage in a circular motion.
after 2/3 minutes of massage , take a steam on your face. If you do not have a steamer, you can use any pot. Heat the water., remove pot from the stove....keep your face over the steaming hot water and cover the head with a towel. as you sweat, the pores will be open.and the blackheads will be loosen.after about 10 minutes of steam, remove the towel. clean sweat with paper towel.look into mirror and press slowly around the blackhead. It will come out without damaging your skin.
repeat 2/3 times a week.your face will clear out. Good luck.