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Does anyone know anything about the Whish Coconut Milk Correcting Gel? I've tried the exfoliating body gel so I know I like the scent. I want the correcting gel because I have scarring on my hands from my crazy siamese cat. We used to play fight when she was a kitten and it was no big deal, but now that she's grow up she plays very rough. Rookie mistake, she's my first *real* pet and I didn't realize what a difference it would make. So unfortunately there's some scarring on my hands since my fiance isn't in town regularly to help me trim her nails. I don't have the heart to get her declawed. I'm getting married in January 2015 so I'd like to try to reduce the damage while I can. (also any other suggestions for reducing scarring are greatly welcomed).
Eep! I don't have any tips on the scarring, but I do have some on the claws (one of my good friends in my 20s was a vet who had to deal with the fallout of declawing issues, so I got about four years of lectures on *that* before I was even *thinking* about adopting kitties): DO NOT get her declawed. In order to declaw, vets actually amputate the last bone in each "finger" on a kitty paw. Declawing turns a kitty who scratches into one who *bites*, and it can lead to all sorts of other behavioral issues, like refusing to use the litterbox (they associate the pain of digging around in the litter during healing with pain using the litterbox, and so they turn to soft places like your bed, the carpet, piles of laundry, etc.). Some vets won't even do the operation any more because of all of the problems that can happen.
So, solo cat claw trimming. I have *never* had anyone around help me trim any of my cats' claws, and three out of four have been climbers (and I mean climbers UP ME for shoulder rides, not just a kitty climbing tree) and just *crazy* zipzipzippers across the futon, over my shoulders, through the living room, up my leg, down my back, and repeat until they get distracted by something only they can see on the ceiling, so it has been absolutely essential for me to learn how to do it my own damned self because tattoo pain has *nothing* on a set of three-inch gashes across your upper back. Get her used to being wrapped up like a burrito in a towel/blanket with all legs tucked inside the fabric. Hold your kitty burrito tucked under one arm like a football, and then pull just one foot out at a time. My monsters are sometimes cooperative and sometimes OH HELL NO YOU ARE NOT TRIMMING MY CLAWS, and the burrito method has saved the day many, *many* times. They can't get a good squirm going when they're swaddled!
ETA: I just remembered that the vet I adopted my first two kitties from** was so against declawing that I actually had to *sign a contract* stating I would not declaw those two. If I did and the vet found out, I would have to surrender my kitties to the vet.
** it was a sort of overflow system for the Humane Society where kittens lived with foster families while they were still too young to be adopted out. I highly recommend this sort of program! Families = socialization with people. Hunter was more people-oriented than most dogs I've met!