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Why do husbands or men do this more often then women?
It was planned that my husband would call me today at 11 a.m. and we'd arrange to go out to lunch. At 12:30 I call him on his cell thinking that he might have been caught up at work. Turns out that he's out to lunch already with friends/coworkers. I was waiting for him here. I was expecting to go out to lunch and I feel ditched.
That's not very nice.
Anyway, he acts casual like it was no big deal. Is it really no big deal to men? I don't understand. Hmmm. Anyway, my feelings are totally hurt and I will go out to lunch alone. I am so mad. Don't people usually keep dates when they say they will, or is this a casual man thing and I am overreacting?
Any insights are appreciated. Thanks.
It was planned that my husband would call me today at 11 a.m. and we'd arrange to go out to lunch. At 12:30 I call him on his cell thinking that he might have been caught up at work. Turns out that he's out to lunch already with friends/coworkers. I was waiting for him here. I was expecting to go out to lunch and I feel ditched.
That's not very nice.
Anyway, he acts casual like it was no big deal. Is it really no big deal to men? I don't understand. Hmmm. Anyway, my feelings are totally hurt and I will go out to lunch alone. I am so mad. Don't people usually keep dates when they say they will, or is this a casual man thing and I am overreacting?
Any insights are appreciated. Thanks.