Reading stuff like this upsets me, honestly. There is nobody on this planet who can be stating that fair skin is more attractive/beautiful/whatever. Sorry, but I totally disagree with your mother on this and am quite shocked when I hear people saying things like this to their own children, rather than helping them build confidence in who they are as people (as well as the physical appearance they were born with). And I say that as a pasty-faced NC20-25 woman. I have to wonder if your mother would say you were too 'fat' and push you to go on a diet before this wedding so she could display you as her perfect little possession. Really, really disturbing...... I've seen many women with skin much darker than mine - from tan to ebony skin tones - who were absolutely gorgeous. Yes they were physically attractive, but a lot of their attractiveness had to do with their self-confidence. Clear skin - as in blemish-free - looks good on anybody, regardless of their skin color or race. I've lived, traveled & worked in quite a few countries and have met many women who have absolutely destroyed their skin by using 'lightening' or 'brightening' skin care products. They wound up with splotchy skin all over there faces, necks & even their bodies, much like a Dalmatian but far worse. Many of these women used hydroquinone products. I'd avoid any 'lightening' products like the plague, in the same way I avoid tanning products. The only reason I'm even giving a suggestion for your question is because I would hate to see you using something that could be toxic or that would permanently damage your skin. The only thing I would personally suggest that's 'safe' would be a moisturizer with glycolic acid or alpha hydroxy acid. Put it on at night before you go to bed. It'll get rid of any darker color caused by sun exposure. I wouldn't use lemon simply because it could wind up really irritating your skin, causing redness & even a breakout before this wedding you're going to. But please keep in mind that 'fair skin' is not more attractive than any other skin tone. I've seen & heard this absurd belief discussed and promoted in many countries around the world, as well as the incredibly offensive advertising campaigns that push this twisted way of thinking by using white women as examples of unattainable 'beauty' in countries where the majority of the populations are NOT naturally white. I understand where it comes from, but that doesn't make it ok.